30 Questions That I Ask For My First Date

First impressions, first dinner and first date. What more could be awkward on a first date? I have experienced many first dates in my life and most the first ones were so awkward and embarrassing that by the next time I truly prepared myself and wrote down 30 questions that I may be able to ask for my date to be able to avoid that awkward silences and moments.

 

Here are my 30 first date questions that I have written:

 

  1. Who has been the biggest influence in your life?
  2. What kinds of things really make you laugh?
  3. What’s your favorite place in the entire world?
  4. Who is your best friend? What do you like about him/her?
  5. Favorite movie of all time? Why so?
  6. What’s your biggest goal in life right now?
  7. What is your favorite way to spend a Saturday?
  8. Do you have any pet peeves?
  9. What was your family like growing up?
  10. What were you like as a kid?
  11. What should I know about you that I’d never think to ask about?
  12. Did you—or do you—have a nickname? What’s the story behind it?
  13. Who was your favorite schoolteacher or college professor? Why?
  14. Have you figured out your calling in life? What is it?
  15. What do you hate most about the dating process? (Tell me so I can avoid it!)
  16. When is your birthday?
  17. What is in your fridge right now?
  18. What are you worse at than 90 percent of the population?
  19. Do you believe in aliens?
  20. Do you think it’s the little things or grand gestures that count the most?
  21. What do you do for a living?
  22. What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?
  23. What’s your ideal vacation?
  24. If you could live in any other U.S. city, which city would you live in?
  25. What was your favourite family vacation growing up?
  26. What was the last book you read?
  27. When you were younger, what did you want to be when you grew up?
  28. What was something that recently moved you?
  29. What skill or talent do you wish you had or were better at?
  30. If you just won $1 million, what would you do with it?

 

I am hoping that I was able to help you my viewers about first date awkwardness. Yes, indeed. First dates are always awkward and something all you could think of is how to be able to survive or if you are really interested on your date, you will want to make a good impression on him.

 

I have found out that by asking these certain questions, I can make my date interested in me because I show him that I am also interested with him. I can always say that a good conversation can really lead to a person’s interest especially in every relationship. It’s just a simple act and it might win someone’s interest you. I can guarantee that by just conversing, you will be able to survive the first date awkwardness.

How to Prepare for a Date – For Girls

Dates should be prepared for because you are meeting, well maybe the one that is destined for you. Chances are, if you are not prepared, you will not be able to catch his attention or even interest.

So I have compiled 10 important things that a girl should prepare for a date:

 

  1. Be confident in yourself

Guys are always attracted to a girl’s confidence. I always say to myself that I am beautiful and be confident about it. I know what I was looking for in a guy. I know what I am and it’s what helps me to honour my boundaries and set firm standards of what I will and will not tolerate from men.

 

  1. Dress to impress the guys

It’s been said that women dress to appease other women. But when you’re single, attracting men should be a priority. There are many outfits that I will be able to dress but I always make sure that I dress appropriately. There are certain dresses for days and for nights, also for work. Whenever I want to impress men, I dress cutely and a little bit sexy but do take note that dressing up way sexily is bad. Just a little bit is enough, no need to be over the top.

 

  1. Have a flirty, optimistic attitude

Men are attracted to women that can make them feel good. I make sure that I don’t really complain a lot to certain things and practice a certain mantra to be optimistic about everything.

 

  1. Show charm and grace

These are traits that really stand out on a woman because they’re not taught in schools or homes anymore.

 

  1. Wear unique accessories

Wear something unique like a vintage hat or an odd piece of jewellery as they could be great conversation starters. I don’t really like to wear jewelleries but I do love earrings and bangles in colour gold.

 

  1. Grow out your hair

This is actually optional but basing from my experience, men are more attracted to women with long hair. I don’t know why but they just do. After all, women with long hairs are considered flirtatious.

 

  1. Wear sexy heels

Heels can enhance my body posture and this is one of the reason why I am wearing heels. Aside from it, I can also observe that by wearing heels, it can make any women sexy.

 

  1. Take pride in your feminity

Men fall head over heels for women who know how to use their feminine wiles. Again, showing confidence in yourself as a woman is a turn-on to most men.

 

  1. Proudly share interesting hobbies

Guys like girls who shares information’s with them like hobbies. I do share it to my dates and they find it cool for me to share it to them. As I am sharing my hobbies to them, sometimes I get to find similar like with them thus making the conversation of the date brighter rather than awkward.

 

  1. Most importantly, be yourself

Dates are done so that both person will be able to know more about each other. It is the getting to know stage. I am always myself when it comes to dates, I don’t pretend who I am not. Nothing else will work unless I am comfortable in my own skin.

 

And these are the ways in which I prepare for my first dates. Do them and the men will surely be into you. Have confidence and be yourself!

9 Ways to Capture Romantic Moments

There are many ways in which you will be able to capture romantic moments. I, as a photographer, I do have a lot of techniques to be able to pull it.

Here are 9 ways in which you can be able to capture romantic moments:

 

  1. Shallow depth of field can direct viewer’s eyes to the subject and soften everything else. This is effective when you shoot a narrative image. I really like shooting my models with shot because a story with a picture can give meaningful meanings to my photograph.

 

  1. Use backlight as main light so it diffuses the scene to a soft and romantic feel. Sunlight is great for this (but do not look directly into the sun through the lens). Just use the sun’s light to be able to light up your model. If you would see the result, it is really breath-taking. How the light affects the picture is really a must.

 

  1. Candle and dimmed light create a romantic/sensual mood. Pay attention to your highlights and lowlights and watch for shadows on your subject. Check your camera’s built-in Scene Modes to best capture your subject.

 

  1. Sunset and sunrise are good times to create romantic photos. The warm colours echo candlelight. City illumination can also provide a unique contrast to your romantic subjects and make for an interesting composition. When I do take romantic photos, I do use the lights of the sun through sunrise and sunset. I feel that by using these natural lights, I can create more of the romantic aura that I am capturing with my models. I’s really good.

 

  1. Try using in-camera creative Art Filters to soften your image. I strongly recommend that you use the Olympus’ Pale and Light Art Filter and Soft Focus Filter because these creates gorgeous and romantic shots. Technically you can just use any cameras but for me, they proved the best in capturing romantic shots.

 

  1. Use props as a focal point of the image. What do you love? What does your special someone love? Other people may not understand the significance of the prop, but it can be a personal message to your loved ones. I do love adding some props in my pictures like a big signboard that tells ‘I Love You’ also some little things like hats, cute animals and other things depending on the theme.

 

  1. Lace gives your subject a feminine touch. White colour works to create a more romantic feeling especially for the ladies. I love laces! And for that I always try to add them up to my models whenever I am shooting.

 

  1. Add lighting. Do you have gel lights and/or sheets? If not, buy a light bulb with red, pink and/or orange to light the room in a romantic tone. Tungsten light for is very good. I use a slow shutter to get the maximum effect.

 

  1. Catch the perfect moment. The facial expression is everything.

 

And that is how I am able to capture romantic photos of the people I am shooting. I am so happy that I am able to share these with you and I hope that you my viewers will someday be also able to shoot romantic photos.

 

 

A Short Introduction About Me!

I do love taking pictures of everything. I have dreamed of taking pictures. I am a photographer. As much as I love taking pictures of almost everything, I do consider myself as a romantic photographer. It is my most desirable and ultimate like.

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How do I create beautiful romantic photos? Here are my key techniques:

 

  1. Decide on a clear centre of attention

I want what I see in that moment to be the one I will be seeing in my pictures. It’s hard to explain, it’s just that everything I see that is picturesque is what I want to be documented.

 

  1. Remember that your eye has a better dynamic range than your camera

Dynamic range has to do with how well you can see the extremes of lights and darks at the same time. The human eye is capable of very high dynamic range, allowing us to clearly see a very dark subject against a very bright background. Cameras, on the other hand, have a much lower dynamic range.

 

  1. Aperture control for DOF

Most photographers quickly figure out shutter speed and ISO, but fewer seem to grasp the power of the aperture settings on their camera. I could easily dedicate an entire post to the topic of aperture control, but for now I’ll sum it up like this: A wide aperture (small F number) will produce a very narrow depth of focus. A very small aperture (large F number) will produce a very deep depth of focus. What does this mean? This means that you can control how out of focus as well as how bright the non-subject portions of your shots are.

 

  1. Careful composition to either expand upon or contract the feel of the photo

Sometimes it is better to zoom farther out and move your feet closer to the subject. This will make your subject larger but capture more of the surroundings to better portray what your eye sees.

 

  1. Be ready because moments come and go quickly

I am always ready with camera. I am always ready to take a picture of those rare moments. I really don’t want to miss them.

 

  1. Understand the exposure triangle

Do take time to understand what is ISO, Shutter Speed, and Aperture will be able to help your photo.

 

  1. P is not for “Professional”

An expensive camera in the hands of an amateur will still produce amateur shots. Learning how to use your camera’s full manual mode will provide you the power to capture what you see.

 

  1. Pay attention to your light sources

When you take a picture, you are really just capturing light, so you need to be able to pay attention to all your light sources and understand how they will interact with the mechanics of your camera.

 

  1. Always check your camera settings

This is the habit that I always do before shooting a picture, I always check my camera settings. I don’t want to ruin every shots that I am doing just because I forgot to set some of the settings.

 

  1. Practice

Even if I am a professional photographer right now, I still do research on tips and advices as well as practice my skills. By practicing, it can enhance my skills and I could take much better pictures.

 

And that is my key techniques in being able to capture beautiful and romantic photos. I am hoping that I will be able to help you capture your romantic photos as well using my key techniques as your guide.